November 8, 2024: The Breakup Text Exchange
“We Are Done Done”
Archive ID: TXT-2024-001
Artifact date: November 8, 2024
Artifact type: Text-message exchange
Category: Written Communications
Status: Contemporaneous digital communication
Participants: Rebekah Morgan and Kyle Morgan
Public version: Redacted
Length: 9 sequential redacted images
Content note: This artifact contains hostile language and references to alleged physical violence, infidelity, emotional abuse, mental health, medication, substance use, financial instability, housing insecurity, and conflict involving children.
Artifact Summary
This text exchange documents my attempt to end my marriage on November 8, 2024.
At 12:02 a.m., I wrote:
“I don’t want you here. Please leave soon. I know I’m gonna. It’s over this time.”
Throughout the exchange, I repeatedly stated that the marriage was over, asked him to leave, attempted to stop further communication, and said that I did not feel safe.
That day, I moved out of our shared bedroom and into the living room, which also served as my daycare space. I remained there nearly twenty-four hours a day for the next twenty-seven days while we continued living in the same apartment.
Our final separation occurred on December 5, 2024.
Context
At the time of these messages, we were still married and living in the same apartment.
The exchange took place during an escalating conflict and contains hostile language from both participants. It also includes serious and conflicting allegations. The messages preserve what each person communicated that day; their inclusion does not mean that every allegation within them has been independently established.
What the artifact establishes directly is that I repeatedly communicated my intention to end the relationship:
“You need to respect my boundaries.”
“And you need to move out.”
“I do not feel safe here with you.”
“I do not want to stay with you. I do not want to be married with you.”
“Separate your things from mine.”
I also acted on that decision by leaving our shared bedroom and moving into the living room and daycare space.
Later that day, after I had ended the relationship and attempted to stop communication, he contacted me again seeking my income information and assistance obtaining a vehicle. I declined to accept financial or insurance responsibility and asked him to tell the program that we were separating.
The Artifact
The complete redacted November 8, 2024 exchange appears below as nine sequential images.
In the original iMessage exchange, my messages appear in blue and Kyle’s appear in gray. Identifying information concerning the children has been redacted from the public copies.
Image 1 of 9
Opening messages from November 8, 2024, beginning at 12:02 a.m. I stated that the marriage was over, asked Kyle to leave, requested that he stop speaking to me, and told him that he was being abusive. Identifying information concerning a child has been redacted.
Image 2 of 9
I repeatedly asked Kyle to stop talking to me, told him to respect my boundaries and move out, and stated, “I do not feel safe here with you.” The exchange then turned to statements involving the children.
Image 3 of 9
After I said that I was leaving the marriage, Kyle claimed that the children knew “what” I was, were afraid of me, and feared being in a room with me. He also called me sick and attributed his view of me to alleged instability, Adderall use, and cannabis use.
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Kyle called me “sick,” “gross,” and “mean,” and claimed that one of our children cried himself to sleep because his mother was “crazy.” I continued stating that I wanted him to leave, that I was no longer in love with him, and that I intended to block his number.
Image 5 of 9
I blocked his number, repeated that the marriage was over, and described the emotional, financial, and family consequences I attributed to the relationship. I wrote, “See blocked. Because I can’t take your abuse anymore,” and later stated that I needed us separated and then divorced.
Image 6 of 9
I described working to pay household expenses, repeated homelessness, coping through Adderall and cannabis, compounded trauma, and feeling intimidated during a disputed incident involving alleged physical contact.
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I described betrayal, pornography, sexual rejection, psychological harm, and a prior psychiatric hospitalization. I asked Kyle to separate his belongings from mine and ended by wishing for happiness, wellness, peace, and freedom. Later that day, at 12:34 p.m., he contacted me seeking my income information for a vehicle program.
Image 8 of 9
The conversation shifted to a vehicle application, insurance costs, financial liability, and my request that the program be informed that we were separating. I declined to be financially associated with another vehicle.
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Redacted iMessage exchange between Rebekah Morgan and Kyle Morgan, image 9 of 9. Rebekah declines to help Kyle obtain a vehicle. Kyle asks, “Not even to help me leave,” and later says, “I knew better than to ask you.” Rebekah states that he does not need her help to leave.
Transcript
The following transcript corresponds to the nine redacted images above. Speaker labels have been added for readability. Original spelling, grammar, incomplete sentences, insults, and apparent typographical errors are preserved.
Friday, November 8 at 12:02 AM
Rebekah: I don’t want you here. Please leave soon, I know I’m gonna. It’s over this time.
Rebekah: So sorry. We are done done.
Rebekah: I cannot be with you.
Kyle: No shit
Kyle: Crazy.
Rebekah: You have a lot of like h that is being tied up. You can work on that I don’t want a single thing form you.
Rebekah: Nothing you say will upset me.
Kyle: You freaked [REDACTED] out to the point it’s just sad
Rebekah: So talk about whatever you wanted
Rebekah: No I didn’t
Rebekah: lol
Rebekah: You’re being abusive again kyle want me to show this to the judge?
Kyle: Not to be laughed at
Edited
Rebekah: Stop.
Rebekah: You need to leave this apartment and I’m not helping you.
Rebekah: Stop talking to me.
Edited
Kyle: You punched me in front of [REDACTED]
Rebekah: What!
Rebekah: Dude you are nutso.
Kyle: And he is sickened by it
Rebekah: Please stop talking to me.
Rebekah: You need to respect my boundaries.
Rebekah: And you need to move out.
Kyle: Stay away from me
Rebekah: I do not feel safe here with you.
Rebekah: No you get out of my apartment weirdo.
Rebekah: Hey, you’re never borrowing my car again. We are over. You need to go and do your yoga thing by bus. We’re done Kyle. We’re actually done.
Rebekah: So say what you want.
Rebekah: I’m moving out of here in Jan or Feb.
Rebekah: You should leave soon or your children could end up homeless again.
Kyle: The kids know what you are
Rebekah: Thank you!!
Rebekah: Namaste 🙏
Kyle: And you laugh at them
Rebekah: Appreciate the compliment.
Rebekah: Have you ever told the truth?
Kyle: They are scared of you
Rebekah: No.
Kyle: And they fear to be in the room with you.
Kyle: Because of your instability and anger
Rebekah: Sure lol [REDACTED] is right here
Rebekah: Loser goodnight leave me alone
Kyle: You’re sick.
Rebekah: What!
Kyle: Sick
Rebekah: Because I don’t want to be with you?
Rebekah: Nah.
Rebekah: I think you’re sick for not doing anything to contribute to the household in two whole years
Kyle: Like too much Adderall and weed because you are insufferable
Rebekah: Hey. Lol that’s crazy.
Rebekah: Be quiet.
Kyle: You
Kyle: Be quiet
Rebekah: I do not want to stay with you. I do not want to be married with you and I want you to leave as soon as you can like you said you would since you don’t pay anything around here I cannot afford to keep you.
Kyle: Laughing at the hurt you cause
Kyle: Sick
Rebekah: What.
Kyle: Gross
Rebekah: Okay.
Rebekah: I’m gross.
Rebekah: I kind of knew that already by all the times you’ve cheated on
Rebekah: Me
Rebekah: Durrrr
Rebekah: I’m used to it.
Rebekah: Ty.
Kyle: Just mean and gross
Rebekah: We are never going to see Ida on this and I want you to leave. I am not in love with you anymore and I don’t want to be with you.
Kyle: I can’t believe you flip like that
Rebekah: I think the same of you I think you’re abusive and you’ve been using me for two years and you’re hurting us snd you wouldn’t change and you won’t leave
Rebekah: Bey
Rebekah: Bye
Kyle: [REDACTED] cries himself to sleep because his mom is crazy.
Rebekah: There’s literally literally nothing to talk about with you. I’m gonna block your number now because I don’t think we should even talk anymore. I think we’re pretty much done.
Kyle: Because you think it’s within your rights to punch people
Rebekah: Is that the only thing you can say to me to try to like even penetrate my feelings because you know what you’ve already done so much damage to me this cannot possibly do much more
Rebekah: No im not going to be with you sorry
Rebekah: You can do better then since I’m so gross
Rebekah: And since I’m so gross working 55 hours a week here in this apartment to take care of the rent and all the bills you should leave because I’m disgust
Kyle: No chance. Sick mean and gross
Rebekah: Hey Kyle, I blocked you so I won’t be hearing anything else you have to say to me
Rebekah: We are done done.
Rebekah: [REDACTED] will never have to see us fight.
Rebekah: Because we are no more so sorry.
Rebekah: I have my opinions about you and you have your opinions about me and that’s the way it’s gonna be
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Rebekah: See blocked. Because I can’t take your abuse anymore.
Rebekah: What kind of man sits on all that that money for all that time when he could’ve been fighting for it for the family he pretended to love
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Rebekah: You abused me and I need us to be separated as soon as possible and then divorced. You have already cost me sooooo much including two of my children who don’t with to be around you. We are all fucked yo because you fucked us up by not only not supporting us but also cheating on us and letting us go down so many times to the point we have been homeless four times.
You wanna know what else, I had never been homeless before I met you and I was age 30...so not terribly young. 😑
Rebekah: Tell a judge.
Rebekah: Bring all the receipts for everything you contributed.
Rebekah: Need adderall to stay awake.
Need weed to cope.
So I can keep pay rent and bills with no help after having been homeless four times in a 10 year period.
Signed Rebekah Morgan 12:20 on 11/8/3024
Edited
Rebekah: And abused by you.
Rebekah: Look around sir!!
Rebekah: I know I’m not wrong, and btw I am rarely wrong. 😑
Rebekah: I can’t believe I ever thought that I was not good enough for you.
No. You are not good enough for me.
The only time I remember getting close to you was when you got in my face to confront me—because apparently that’s something you felt you had to do against me, especially since you’re a fairly strong and fit yoga fitness instructor for the parks and recs where you volunteer and I am age 50 with a severe amount of literal health conditions likely exacerbated by my compounded trauma including severe asthma exacerbated by my coping mechanisms. I felt very intimidated by you, if I punched, which I certainly don’t remember doing, it might have been a defensive response. If you are accusing me of injuring you, I hope you document them with photos (as I have done and dated journal), especially since I cannot recall punching you at all.
To be honest with you, you have literally always been toxic for me and I always knew and I never wanted to admit it. The thing is, you were paying strippers snd whatever else says after we had just met and had been sexual.
I can’t begin to tell you of the trauma I endured while you chose to ignore avoid me and jerk off to porn - when I needed your love and support - and instead I ended up in a crazy mental institution for 10 days - so you could have plenty of time to continue to ignore avoid and jerk off to porn for 10 days.
You can think of me as sick if you want. Go ahead. I’m not trying to impress you anymore, it took me 20 years to figure out that I’m never gonna. Hate me all you want.
Separate your things from mine and I will figure out what I’m going to do with my personal belongings this weekend.
I really wish you the best whatever that looks like for you.
If you see this or don’t see this... may we be happy, may we be well, may we be peaceful, may we be free. 🪷
Later That Day — 12:34 PM
Kyle: Hopefully you can see this. I need to know your current monthly income
Kyle: Roughly
Rebekah: Why is that?
Kyle: Cars for success
Edited
Kyle: Has a car for me
Kyle: But they want details about income from you
Rebekah: Wonderful. I don’t know my monthly income right now.
Rebekah: It’s not too much.
Kyle: 3k 4k
Rebekah: Oh no.
Rebekah: Also I don’t want to be associated with your car.
Kyle: It will be for me
Kyle: There isn’t a loan
Kyle: It’s for insurance
Kyle: And stability
Rebekah: You don’t have insurance money and since we are still married and live together I would have to be on that insurance and it’s about $150-$175 per month.
Rebekah: I do not authorize myself to be associated with your car situation.
Kyle: Right but they inquired about all element of our budget
Rebekah: I have my own car I have to worry about.
Rebekah: Tell them we are splitting?
Kyle: You won’t be
Rebekah: Happy you got a car. Congrats!!
Kyle: It will be in my name.
Rebekah: I understand. Happy for you.
Kyle: Thanks to your application
Edited
Rebekah: Things are different now. I certainly cannot afford the liability of a second vehicle.
Rebekah: So you can let them know the change of circumstances right?
Kyle: Forget it.
Edited
Kyle: They don’t do cars to live out of
Edited
Kyle: I am trying to secure a vehicle. Do you want to help with that ?
Rebekah: I understand that. I filled that app out for us a long time ago. Things have changed I have an expensive vehicle I can barely afford. No I don’t want to help you at all
Rebekah: 100% no.
Kyle: Not even to help me leave
Rebekah: You don’t need my help to leave.
Rebekah: No I don’t need to help you I have really helped you enough sorry you can’t see that.
Kyle: I knew better than to ask you.
Kyle: My bad
Rebekah: Okay.
Patterns Documented in the Exchange
Weaponizing the Children
During my attempt to end the marriage, he claimed:
“The kids know what you are.”
“They are scared of you.”
“And they fear to be in the room with you.”
He later wrote that one of our children:
“cries himself to sleep because his mom is crazy.”
That statement was not true.
It invoked our child’s supposed private suffering to portray me as mentally unstable and harmful as a mother. It placed the child inside an adult conflict and forced me into the position of defending my sanity and motherhood instead of maintaining my decision to leave.
This is consistent with triangulation, weaponization of a child, maternal undermining, pathologizing, and guilt induction.
Pathologizing and Credibility Erosion
He repeatedly called me “crazy,” “sick,” “unstable,” “insufferable,” “mean,” and “gross.” He also used my prescribed Adderall, cannabis use, anger, and mental-health history as evidence that I was irrational.
This functioned as pathologizing and credibility erosion. My distress and health history were used to undermine my account of the relationship and shift attention away from the boundaries I was establishing.
Contempt and Degradation
The repeated use of words such as “gross,” “sick,” and “insufferable” did not address the substance of what I was saying.
These were contemptuous personal attacks delivered while I was attempting to end the marriage. Their effect was to degrade me and pull me into defending my character rather than discussing separation.
Blame Shifting and Reversal
When I described abuse, betrayal, financial strain, and my desire to separate, the response repeatedly returned to my alleged instability, medication use, parenting, and behavior.
This reflects blame shifting and reversal of responsibility. The focus moved away from the conduct I was naming and toward a case against my sanity, fitness, and credibility.
Boundary Resistance
I repeatedly wrote:
“Please stop talking to me.”
“You need to respect my boundaries.”
“And you need to move out.”
“I’m gonna block your number now.”
The conversation nevertheless continued. Later that day, contact resumed with a request for my income information and help securing a vehicle.
The exchange shows how stating a boundary did not create immediate physical, emotional, or financial separation.
Entitlement to Continued Support
After I ended the relationship, he still sought my financial information and cooperation. When I refused, he replied:
“Not even to help me leave.”
“I knew better than to ask you.”
Those responses reframed my refusal as a personal failure, even though I had already stated that the marriage was over and that I could not accept liability for another vehicle.
This is consistent with guilt induction and an expectation of continued labor and financial support after separation had been declared.
What This Artifact Documents
This exchange documents:
My repeated statements that I wanted the marriage to end
My requests that he leave the apartment and respect my boundaries
My statement that I did not feel safe
My decision to move out of our shared bedroom
My attempt to separate our belongings and finances
Claims involving a child’s supposed distress that I state were false
Triangulation and weaponization of the children
Attacks on my motherhood and mental stability
The use of medication and trauma history to discredit me
Contemptuous insults and personal degradation
Blame shifting and reversal of responsibility
Conflicting allegations concerning physical contact
References to infidelity, pornography, and emotional harm
Financial conflict and repeated housing instability
Continued requests for assistance after I ended the relationship
The difficulty of creating an immediate separation while sharing a home
Why This Artifact Matters
This was not a private realization reconstructed after the marriage ended.
On November 8, 2024, I directly stated that I wanted him to leave, that I did not feel safe, and that I did not want to remain married.
I did not merely say that the marriage was over. That same day, I removed myself from our shared bedroom and began living in the living room and daycare space.
For the next twenty-seven days, I remained there nearly twenty-four hours a day because ending the marriage in words did not immediately give me the resources or ability to create a permanent physical separation.
The exchange also shows what happened when I tried to leave: my mental health, medication, motherhood, credibility, and character became the focus. Even the children were invoked against me.
This artifact documents the difference between declaring that a relationship is over and being able to make that separation safe, practical, and permanent.
Our final separation occurred on December 5, 2024.
Archive Note
This entry preserves nine sequential redacted images from a November 8, 2024 text-message exchange.
Names and identifying information concerning the children and other private details have been removed or obscured for public release.
The messages retain their original language, including insults, spelling errors, edited messages, incomplete sentences, and allegations made by both participants.
The transcript reproduces the visible exchange in text form for accessibility and searchability. Speaker labels have been added to distinguish the blue and gray message bubbles.
The descriptions of coercive and emotionally abusive patterns are contextual analysis of the communication preserved in the artifact. They are not presented as clinical diagnoses.
